Rubbernecking can be bad for your mental health

More wacky goings on in NZ expat land!

The latest toxic game to be played on the forum has been perpetrated by a member calling itself "Rubbernecker" Rubbernecker professes to be a lawyer this may explain why his or her mental health seems to be an issue.

Occupation: Lawyer

Location: elsewhere, North Island

Status: this is where I belong

Rubbernecker started their trolling career giving every indication of appearing relatively sane, making a first post that went like this.

Hello English madman. I read this forum a bit but have never posted before as I don't really have anything to offer. However in this case I might be able to save you a bit of hassle as I am an employment lawyer. Regarding your case you may have a case for wrongful dismissal as it does not appear your employers have followed the correct process in terminating your employment. However if you are on a casual contract you will have very little recourse to claim remedies. This is because you employer could simply claim there wasn't much work in the pipeline and that you wouldn't have had much in the way if future wages. Remedies for wrongful dismissal are either lost wages, humiliation or exemplary. Lost wages can accrue over a 6 month period but I don't think you would get much in that way as you seem to be a casual worker and not be able to show a regular wage. Humiliation would be difficult as well as this forum shows you hate working the job and thus you haven't really been humiliated to stop you working in that field of employment. There us no cause for exemplary. Anyway if you are a full time or permanent part time worker and was working for a decent regular weekly wafe go for it if you aren't going to get another job in the foreseeable future. Otherwise it's a waste if time and money seeking legal advice. Hope that help, of you have any other questions just post and ill reply. Cheers (sorry about the spelling but I ripped this out on my phone while my girlfriend was shopping)

Rubbernecker, who was later exposed as fraud by Serephinianus, was telling the truth about one thing - he or she didn't really have anything to offer.

That became clear as soon as Topcat83 registered on the forum and claimed a right to reply.

(In the responses given to Jsaddler I noticed a link to this blog .Thanks Trip)

When other posters began putting the hard questions to Topcat83 she never had the balls to reply and quickly scarpered never to be seen again. Then suddenly both the thread AND the forum began to be bombarded with spam from Rubbernecker and the attack has continued to this day.

Rubbernecker had obviously lost the plot and turned into a gibbering wreck. Reduced to posting "i Kiwi" a multitude of times in what looked like a concerted effort to bury both Topcat83's right to reply AND the link that was made by a the new member Trip.
 

Have YOU made the connection yet between Rubbernecker and Jsaddler? I have.

It is not hard to see who these two people are if you look long enough.

Rubbernecker's actions are as good as an admission of guilt perhaps? YOU decide based on the evidence before you and remember to take care out there in NZ expat land because you never know what nasties you are dealing with.

Another toxic game on an NZ expat forum, brought to you by Agog.

More toxic games in the NZ expat community

A week ago a major scandal silently erupted beneath the surface of ExpatExposed.com and the few bubbles which made it to the surface gave little away about the pelagic rumblings deep beneath.

Here’s what happened as it was told to me.

Some members of the ExpatExposed forum community (called Exxies) were discussing the removal or censoring of anti-NZ material from ExpatForum’s New Zealand community (hereafter called Expaters) when the conversation turned to the immigration advice which is often given on ExpatForum.

Exxie A decided to take it upon them self to raise an official complaint to the immigration licensing authority about the Expater moderator giving unlicensed immigration advice on ExpatForum.

Using readily available material from the Expater moderator’s own web site www.arttel.co.nz/wiki/doku.php?id=home which she publicized in her posts on ExpatForum, Exxie A published the moderator’s name on ExpatExposed.

TIT FOR TAT
New member JSaddler (who had recently joined the ExpatExposed community) responded by publishing Exxie A’s alleged name on ExpatExposed.

JSaddler also published a Google search directing interested parties directly to Exxie A’s private family album and blog, showing pictures of Exxie A’s immediate family. Things were beginning to get dirty but this was to be only the tip of the iceberg.

Exxie A was forced into withdrawing his posts and JSaddler agreed to do the same. Like civilized adults they shook on the arrangement. I do not know if the complaint to the immigration licensing authority was withdrawn.

Exxie A visited the ExpatForum to make peace with the Expaters mod, asking if she were the troll JSaddler. She denied she was JSaddler. Exxie A believed that to be the end of the matter and the dust settled.

Or did it? This was what was going on off forum.

FACEBOOK
Within a few hours someone set up a fake Facebook account using Exxie A’s real name.

On this Facebook page were copies of Exxie A’s posts taken from from Expat Exposed, many of them criticizing life and work in New Zealand.

The imposter had sent friend requests to Exxie A’s work colleagues and boss. Those people viewed the Facebook entries and were not amused, Exxie A came within a hair's breath of losing his job.

Facebook responded to a take down request but not before irreparable damage had been done.

SPANIELS
Having accomplished one major operation the next move from JSaddler was to stalk another person from Expatexposed. I shall call her Exxie 2 (B*****m) who was also a member of a dog owner’s forum, she was unconnected with Expatforum.


JSaddler stalked Exxie B's online profile and then posted this thinly disguised threat on ExpatExposed.

The implication was this  – Exxie 2 you’re next for a massive invasion of privacy.

This is the link to the thinly veiled threat http://www.expatexposed.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=51343&highlight=#51343  made by JSaddler towards Exxie 2.

Quote:

"Hello all my cheerful friends.
I have been watching with interest how your former colleague deleted
most of his posts from all forums, plus his blog and escapenz website.
I first thought this was an over reaction and just mentioned it to a
colleague who works for a recruitment agency. “Not at all” was his
response. Most companies now trawl the web for info about prospective
employees, going beyond the facebook looking for other posts that might
reflect upon the persons character. So basically the game is, would a
new employer prefer some one with a positive attitude or one who spends
there time moaning about their life.
Please note, I do not belong to any gaming website, that’s all to tedious
Hi b*****m do you have a springer spaniel?"

Compare the last line of that message with an earlier private message sent to Exxie A by the Expater moderator (the one whose name he published on Expatexposed.)

The following sentence was in a private message on ExpatForum and the two parties had never discussed b******m before. B*****m was in no way connected to Expatforum and was not a member there.

"PS I love B*****m’s dog – Springer spaniels are one of my favourite breeds"

It seems that there may be a direct link between JSaddler and the ExapatForum moderator.

What can we take away from this appalling, piece of on-line harassment?

Do not give out personal details, or links from which your name or address may be found. Safeguard your private data and that of your family. You never know when some sick person is going to come along and violate it. Or when you will become a victim of identity theft.

Since I wrote this blog another member of the Expatexposed community has been stalked. An anonymous person phoned his employer and workplace, resulting in him being dismissed. I may write more about this later.

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